Soulmate or Cell Mate, You Make The Choice: A Guide To Healthy Relationships

Jackie Woods
Adawehi Press (2006)
ISBN 1933690003
Reviewed by Michelle Anne Cox-Lomas for Reader Views (8/06)

“Soulmate or Cell-Mate” by Jackie Woods is a truly fantastic book, filled with a lot of positive and heartfelt information on how you can tell the difference between being in a Soulmate relationship or a Cell-mate one. She guides you through all the possible areas of your life where relationships are important and helps you to understand how you can improve, heal, and add more heartfelt energies, such as; Abundance, Acceptance, Adventure, Affection, Balance, Beauty, Flow, Humor, Love, Inspiration, and Peace – just to mention a few of the 90 heartfelt energies that she will explain to you. Once knowing how to add these most important energies into your relationships, you will easily be able to have more flow and serenity with the people that you love the most.

I learned so much through this great book about how to have a better relationship with my husband, children, friends, parents, and even with the most important person that I will ever have a relationship with…myself!

It is possible to take a frustrating relationship, see it in a new light, add some true heartfelt energies and watch the relationship space between you and the one you love grow and grow and grow!

I loved the way that Jackie brought it to my attention about how important it is for every person to have their own “space” and that when we decide to go into a relationship with another person; we then create a brand new space that IS the “relationship space”.  That “relationship space” does not take away from our own individual “space.” I think too many people these days get into co-dependent (or cell-mate) relationships because they think when in a relationship with someone, that means they then own the other person’s individual space.  This sets the stage for all kinds of negative energies to arrive, like envy, jealousy, suspicion, etc. I learned a much better way of looking at all of my relationships through “Soulmate or Cell-mate” and she is right, it’s up to you to make the choice.

I learned how to begin new relationships, nurture the ones that are important to me, and put closure to the ones that I needed to let go of. It’s amazing how we hold onto old relationships from the past and bring that baggage into our current relationships. Jackie Woods taught me how to celebrate the good times from those past relationships and actually allow myself to grieve over letting them go. This was a big step for me.  I realized by reading her book that I had many past relationships that I had never put any real closure on. By allowing myself to understand the process of real closure, it allowed me to have so much more energy to concentrate on putting more heartfelt energies into my current relationships and I have personally noticed a very happy change indeed, with myself and all those around me.

Whether you are looking to start a new relationship, nurture the current relationships around you, or put closure on your own past relationships, “Soulmate or Cell-mate” by Jackie Woods is a must read for everyone!

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