Instant Orgasm: Excitement at First Touch!

Steve Bodansky, PhD, and Vera Bodansky, PhD
Hunter House (2008)
ISBN 9780897935081
Reviewed by Gloria Hawkins for Reader Views (11/08)


We read how-to books on everything else, why not a book on how to have a more enjoyable sex life? After all, our bodies were designed to appreciate such pleasures. Maybe if more of us had access to these kinds of books when we first began relationships, we would be much more successful and happy, in and out of the bedroom.

The authors have written several books and have taught what lies within their books for over twenty years to countless others. They want partners to help each other to get to that special place faster and think of orgasms in a totally different way. I’m game!

The Bodansky’s make it very clear many times that they are not talking about an orgasm for an instant, but rather that orgasms can be reached almost instantly for women and even quicker for men if we take the time to study our endeavor just a bit. Practice makes perfect!

Readers do need to understand that this can be a very clinical book including explicit drawings highlighting intimate body parts. It also contains its share of “…racy terms when doing so seems appropriate.” I didn’t feel like I needed a shower after reading it, but I couldn’t help but laugh out loud at the term “crotch sneeze.” You’ll have to read the book.

The bottom line seems to be that we need to focus on what we want, which is something we’ve heard in other parts of our lives. And the authors believe we can be instantly turned on if we allow ourselves to be and then we can achieve the Extended Massive Orgasm, which is so wonderful it is presented in capital letters! They ask the question about whether “…our natural state is to be in orgasm all the time and (whether) it is only when we move our attention…that we do not experience these sensual feelings?”

I learned a lot just by reading the first chapter, but it will be even more fun to try the recommended exercises. There are solo ones and others I can share with my partner. My one complaint is that the Frequently Asked Questions at the end seemed like really bad Penthouse Forum letters that I remember from my youth. But for readers who want to get right to a specific technique there is a useful index and even a bibliography that eager readers can peruse.

I would recommend “Instant Orgasm: Excitement at First Touch!” to anyone who wants to expand their pleasure with or without their partner. Life is too short to miss out on so much fun!

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